The purpose of Sadness Club is to learn how to consciously experience your sadness, utilise its connective - and cleansing - energy and information, so you can navigate to the deepest grounds of your worlds and be reborn over and over again for to be vibrantly living in the fields of Connection and Compassion.

Modern culture holds opportunities to feel your sadess very narrow. It tries to convince us that sadness is a sign of weakness, especially for men. And that women, who are sad (usually all the time), are as themselves too much and complicated. This creates narrowness and a never-ending competition of strenght. Bottom line - if you are sad you better be alone! That exactly this might cause the lack of connection and togetherness that many people suffer and try to fill with enormous efforts of neurotic consumption is neglected. The incapacity to grief and to be fully compassionate about the aliveness of live is the outcome of the unconscious abandonment of sadness.

A dry world needs to be watered with your tears by regaining the ability to let go of Relationships, Dreams, Things, Ideals, Moments, Fictions, Jobs, Decisions, Friends, Loved Ones, Survival Strategies and Identities of ones self. Your sadness has the power to connect you with reality and widen the space that your being lovingly occupies.

Without consciously feeling and navigating your sadness things stay drouth and dry and people can only move in the narrow channels of their crippled ability for Compassion.

Sadness Clubs are extremely safe learning environments allowing you to reconnect to the adult and archetypal power and intelligence of sadness.

Sadness Club is not about healing your sadness, make it go away, or trying to diminuish it. 

Sadness Club is about developing the inner energetic resilience to experience the distinction between emotional sadness and pure feeling of sadness. 

With this Distinction operating in real time, you can use your emotional sadness as a gateway to an emotional healing process, and you can access your unmixed conscious sadess and use it:

• To be connected and feel your heart;

• To be in reality;

• To let go;

• To be present with what is;

• To create something out of your longing;

• To be sensitive of what needs to be handled and spoken;

• To stay tenderly connected with everything while being focused one thing;

• To care about your Gaia, your world, your surroundings, your familiy, your space, ...

• To navigate out of your comfort zone;

• To notice if you are vulnerable;

• To notice if you are getting closer with each other;

• To notice if anyone is incomplete;

• To notice if something incomplete;

• To scan for where the flow wants to take you;

• To listen to the water, to the rivers, to the animals, the trees and to the room;

• To increase your sensitivity;

• To create more Aliveness;

• To hold space;

• To discover new ways, new moves, new possibilities, new parts of you and new parts of others;

• To be an archetypal Lover and create real heart-touching worlds;

• To create genuine Intimacy and Love;

• To continuously invent your relating with others;

• To invent your life;

• To discover your Lineage as a Sadness Club Spaceholder.

In other words, to discover the Lover, the Mother, the Father, the Caretaker, the  in you.

Sadness signals you when you are with or without the intimacy that is held by Life around you..it brings you right back into the present moment of stillness and yet movement.

Working with Sadness

No other sphere and feeling is so deeply in love with the two siblings of Life and Death as sadness. Where Life ends, it begins. The never ending cycle does each transition within the embracing hands of sadness. Between the gentle touch and lacerating tear of sadness, the heart of Life beats. When there is no sadness there is no Life.

Sadness Club is different from Fear Club and Rage Club. It's territory centers in Connection, reset, letting go, and learning how to grieve.

For the Sadness Club to work the door of falling into the midst of yourself is taken everytime anew in any moment. It's a space full of beginnings and endings. At the end of the Sadness Club, the sadness explorers are different beings, closer through their journey, enriched by having found the door to an incredible source of Life (and Death).

• Have stellated your own anger to 100% 

• Have stellated your own fear to 100%

• Have stellated your own sadness 100% and partially joy as joy comes up when working with these feelings in yourself and others.

• Can hold space.

• Can experientially distinguish between feelings and emotions in yourself and in others.

• Can experientially distinguish between YOUR feelings and emotions and OTHER PEOPLES' feelings and emotions.

• Have your Gremlin by your side be unhookable by other Gremlins.

• Are mostly in Phase 2 of anger. In Phase 1, you learn to express anger. In Phase 2, you learn to use you anger consciously. 

• Have completed the Rage Club Spaceholder Training and Fear Club Spaceholder Training

• Have delivered at least one Rage Club series by yourself.

• Have successfully shifted identity into a Fear Researcher and have not left that identity, even when washing dishes or grocery shopping.

• Have jacked into your Archetypal Sadness as an Archetypal Resource for use in everyday life.